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Sunday
19Oct

Book Review: The Gentle Art of Domesticity

One of my favorite things about working at Purl is getting to preview all the new books that come through, and I'm often caught leafing through them when I should be unpacking and putting them on the shelf.  I recently got sucked in by one of our newest arrivals, the US edition of The Gentle Art of Domesticity by Jane Brocket, who is the creator of a blog I'll bet you've seen and loved: yarnstorm.  If you haven't seen it, check it out right now and you'll see how beautifully done it is.  Each entry reads like a letter from a good friend, detailing moments of creative inspiration found through family, books, movies, art, baking, traveling, gardening, fabric, and of course, yarn.

The Gentle Art of Domesticity is one of the most unique craft books I've come across at Purl.  In fact, I shouldn't even call it a craft book because it's not a how-to or a pattern book.  Rather, it's a smartly written collection of essays, reflections, and stories about Jane's domestic life and the immense pleasure she gets from building her nest.  Subtitled "Stitching, Baking, Nature, Art, and the Comforts of Home," Jane delves further into her love for "the gentle arts," contemplating varied subjects such as buttons, English painters, Cary Grant, and chewy flapjacks.  Yes, you'll find several recipes for baked treats interspersed with discussions of style, texture, practicality, luxury, and color.  And speaking of color, absolutely no punches are pulled in that department.  Most of the shockingly colorful photos were taken by the author herself, and illustrate the major role that color plays in each and every creative choice she makes.  I love that she likes to match her embroidered tablecloths with the icing on her cupcakes; and her toenail polish to her dahlias.


As a single girl whose tiny New York studio apartment can have a hard time feeling like a home, I found valuable creative advice in The Gentle Art of Domesticity, but I never felt bossed into adopting Jane's style or way of making things as my own.  Her thoughts on inspiration right at the beginning of the chapter were particularly helpful.  In the sub-chapter titled "A Habit of Seeing," she describes inspiration as simply "the opposite of expiration, a drawing in as opposed to a letting out."  After reading that sentence I made a promise that I would take the time to record in a journal all the things I see and hear during the day that I have allowed to affect an emotion in me; to take in the beautiful and gritty scenes of my New York life and let them find their way into my home via my knitting, sewing, cooking, photos, and writing.

 
Although visually stunning and inspiring to read, the pictures and stories in The Gentle Art of Domesticity are not what drew me in the most.  In the introduction, Jane calls attention to something that I and I'd guess lot of women of my generation think seriously about every day--the choice many of us have between staying at home with family or going out into the workforce, or even doing both.  She remembers that in the seventies (when I was born), feminism was mainstream again and young girls were being raised to have a greater sense of independence through career.  To the feminist thinkers of the time, the domestic arts were a throwback to the days when women's lives were relegated to the home, and soon enough they became devalued as quaint and irrelevant.  Having become a woman with both a professional and a domestic life, Jane reports that she sometimes felt embarrassed by her love of knitting, sewing, and baking and hid her creations, thinking she was alone in valuing these skills.  Well, it's certainly clear by the publication of this book, the popularity of yarnstorm and other blogs like it, and the resurgence of craft circles and retailers that she isn't alone.  I know that I enjoy spending much of my spare time in the kitchen, or with a pile of wool in my lap, or at the sewing machine, and that I feel great satisfaction in both the process and the product of these pursuits.  And most of all, I'm glad that I was given a choice.  Thank you Jane! --Leah

ps. You can find the book here! If you'd like to learn more about this book, and see a whole gallery of images check out this link: Melanie Falick Books!


Reader Comments (18)

What a beautiful post ... I'll look for this book! Thank you for sharing feelings that I certainly share, and that many others must.
October 19, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterNina
Those fabrics are TO DIE FOR!

And I love your blog! :) I have bookmarked you!
October 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSteppie
Can anyone tell me what the differences are (other than the cover) between the British and American publications of this book? I haven't been able to find anything that says.

Thanks :)
October 20, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterpeanut
Hi Peanut,
There aren't any substantive differences between the two (except for the cover).
October 20, 2008 | Registered Commenterpurl bee
Thank you for that review. I took a deep breath while reading that, trying to "take it in." Those are some of the things I've been pondering recently - the value of domestic arts and women's career choices. Breathe in deeply again.
October 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterEvonne
Amazing photos, amazing colors. I'll have to look for that book.
October 20, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterprettypennydesigns
What a beautiful review. One reason I love blogging is because there are so many like-minded women out there - women who love to create, to build a home, to nurture others, and do it intentionally, with intelligence and spunk.

Lorrie
October 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLorrie
This reminds me of something oprah once said. The feminist movement is not simply about women going back to work, it's evolved to a place (hopefully) where a woman can feel confident in her decision to either work, or take care of the home, or do both, without being judged. And I think that's important, doing what you think needs to happen, doing what you think is important. Not what your neighbor's are doing, or what you think your role should be. Looks like a great book.
October 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAnn
I bought this book back in February as a birthday present to myself and find I'm forever dipping in and out of it. Have used several of the recipes and it's a constant source of inspiration and delight.

It's not just about cooking and crafting either but taking inspiration and joy from the simple things in life, your surroundings and being creative.
October 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterGill
Exellent review of the book. I absolutely adore it, and find something new in it every time I pick it up. I love a book you can grab just for a quickie reference one day and find yourself lost in it 30 minutes later or so...

Delicious.
October 21, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSteph
What a wonderful review of a delightful book. At first, I thought the book was going to be about the creative domestic arts, but it's about so much more than that. And your review captures that. It's a very inspirational book that you can get lost in and still apply to your own life. I especially love your idea of keeping a journal to record how life gets into your domestic setting. So refreshing to hear there are "others" out there like me too!
October 21, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterTerriaw
I have the British edition of the book and can thoroughly recommend it. It's highly literate, beautifully balanced and a thought-provoking treat from first page to last.
October 21, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterCornflower
What inspiration! I'm adding the book to my Christmas wishlist right away. What a truly privileged time it is to be a woman. Knowing that I have helped keep alive "the gentle arts" is a treasured thought.
October 21, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterKrista
Thanks for calling this book and blog to my attention. The pictures are beautiful and I look forward to reading it. And I am so thankful that I have the choice, as well!
October 21, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterlupingirl
OH, I'm going to look for or ask for that book at my local independent bookstore. How beautiful!
October 22, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterwaterrose
I know what I'm getting next! Even though I was born later than Jane, in the early eighties, I too have felt the pressure to "choose" between work and hearth. I'm choosing home, but happily the internet can provide a sustainable lifestyle for women.
October 22, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermiss shortcake
Great post and it sounds like a great book-- I can't wait to read it! As a twentysomething, I am trying to reconcile those two "different" worlds: the world of professional ambition and advancing my career and my love for sewing, crocheting, baking and all things pretty for the home. I agree with you, though, I am eternally grateful that I was given a CHOICE.
October 24, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterchristine
Great post! I have had this book on my reading list for a while and am glad to hear it's as good as it looks. :-)
October 28, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAmy

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